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"A household based in North London wants to find an remarkable and skilled instructor to support their smallest child on his first steps to turning into an English gentleman."

When reading this listing, you might easily miss the phrase "initial stages" as mere an expression.

Yet, it may be the most important aspect of this unusual job advert, as it aims to find a tutor for a infant.

Many of submissions have now been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the listing has attracted notice across the news, with several questioning why?

Progressive Approach

The CEO, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their hunt, explained that despite early scepticism, he viewed the idea "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he said they recognized the unusual character of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

But, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had already set in".

What exactly did the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", Adam replied. "How you eat, how you speak".

He said the elder child had absorbed "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had assumed their cultural norms. The family explained to him they did not want the same situation to recur with their new baby.

The intention: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with RP, to influence the baby from the very start.

Osmotic Learning

"A great deal of the development at the beginning here is kind of absorbed naturally," explained the expert.

It's through this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will pick up the British traits they want to instil.

He noted the tutor had to be someone who went to "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told the expert the chosen tutor should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in riding, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and music so as to shape the child in a diverse set of passions.

More than that though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a selection of classes so the child would be "pony-riding and picking up an instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son grow into a "British gentleman" will result in success and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the rights and wrongs of that, because it's definitely a status symbol," he adds.

Yet, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "Britishness", would the child pick up alleged cultural bias from the multicultural family he is raised by regardless?

"Yes", said Adam. "The parents understand this may not work, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we should start as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he explained.

Impractical

Several in the education sector who have similar concerns.

Peter Cui, chief executive of an educational organization, who provides personal educators, commented that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or in fact, discovering oneself, is something that must be lived into, not manufactured."

The expert explained that he had emigrated from China to the United Kingdom at the age of seven, and had been raised knowing and living both cultures. He continued to learn at a prestigious UK institution.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a embodiment of Britishness, a person who can somehow transfer the qualities of a English gentleman to a one-year-old child, seems to me naive and impractical," he commented.

"Based on my background, engaging a distinctly English tutor from infancy will will not instantly create the goal they desire.

"I never had that kind of mentor, and nevertheless I have been lucky enough to enjoy numerous of the experiences they aspire for their son."

He added: "The truth is, personal identity should not be imposed from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, UK identity is something the expert hopes can be taught – and commercialized.

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